The dating guide for men
Dating is easy. It doesn’t have to mean lots of work for you guys, if only you know which buttons to push. First of all, some small facts about women.
1. We want to work for it and we want a challenge.
2. We don’t like arrogant guys, but we love it when he's confident. Fine line there guys.
3. We want you to be interested, but not too interested, and not right away.
4. We want compliments, but not phony ones and they better not be from lousy pick up lines.
5. We want you to dress well!!!! Very important! See my post dating with style if you are in doubt.
6. We don’t want you to brag or tell us about your success with other women.
7. We hate it when you're not polite.
8. We hate it even more if you grab us before we give you the signals that it's ok to touch us.
9. We love it when you make us laugh.
10. We adore men who makes us feel like the most beautiful woman in the room.
11. We love charming men and men who knows how to make a woman feel special
Now don't worry if you're not charming, or if you're bad with words or any of the other things at this list. That’s why I'm here. This blog is for teaching you guys all about dating and women. If there is something you want to know that you're not reading here, it will most likely turn up in one of my other posts about dating.
Back to the topic at hand. One of the most important rules about dating is: You have to work on it without seeming too. It means that when you chase a girl, you have to make her thing you're not really that interested. It's the dating rule number one! Lets say you walk into a bar. You are looking for someone to start dating, or maybe just someone to have some fun with. You see lots of women, but there is one in particular. This beautiful, perfect girl that you would just die to get your hands on. You really want to start dating her! Instead of walking up to her you probably think something along the lines of: "She's way too hot to ever start dating someone like me. Lets try the plain girl in the corner". This is WRONG! When it comes to dating, confidence is a must! You have to be able to walk straight up to hottest girl in the room and not feel threatened. Now how do you do this? I'll tell you the secret.
When you walk into the room and you see this hot girl, chances are she is used to lots of attention and crude remarks. She wont like this, trust me. I have been groped more times than i can count, and i think i have heard every single pick up line there is, and let me tell you something... It isn't that impressive. We never start dating guys who does that. What you want is to make her remember you after you are gone, but because you were original or charming, not because you insulted her and she know hates your guts. If you want to start dating the really hot girls, follow my advice. So lets say the girl is sitting by the bar. One thing to do in this scenario is to position yourself right by her, glance at her once (AT HER FACE!!!! I cant stress this enough, resist the urge to give her a once over, meet her eyes, let your eyes wander over her face, then look away). Pretend you're not interested, that what you saw didn’t really tempt you. When a hot girl who is used to attention suddenly doesn’t get any, she will be curious and she will want you to notice her. Trust me on this, I am the exact same way.
After you have done this she will definitively have noticed you, which is exactly what you want. Now the next thing to do on the dating advice list, you will find in my next post, comming up soon:)
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