Tuesday 30 December 2008

7. Conversation for pros


Dating advice 7.

When it comes to conversation on dates, I know for a fact lots of guys need help. I have been on so many dates where the guy ruined everything by what was said and how he said it. It was a real turn off. So today I want to share with you what is good and what is bad conversation. If you manage to stick to only the good one, then I can guarantee you will get another date, and maybe something else too...

What you have to remember is: People are selfish and self absorbed. Granted, not everyone are as self absorbed as others, but most people enjoy talking about themselves and what they are passionate about. You guys can use this to your advantage when you are dating. It's important that you get them to relax and start talking. It is much easier answering a questions than just blurting something out, so ask your date different questions about her and her life. Conversation topics on a date is very important, but also how you say it makes a difference. So first I am going to give you some ground rules, how you should act during the conversation.

1. I know i have said this in some of my other posts, but I will say it again seeing how very important it is; Keep eye contact! Do not stare at her breasts or at her legs or at her neck. You want to show her you are interested in what she has to say, not what her body has to offer. Also, it will make her think you're not only after her for sex, maybe you don't even want her that much. And if you don't want her that much, guess what that makes you. Yes, that's right, a challenge. And we all know girls love a challenge.

2. Be polite and don't talk about sex. Yes, it's the same rule on the first date. You're not supposed to talk about sex unless she brings it up. And if she does bring it up, no matter what happens don't talk about all the girls you have had or how much they enjoyed being with you.

3. Smile a lot. If someone smiles at you, the natural response is to smile back. And what happens when you smile? You feel kind of happy. So if you smile at your date, not only do you show that you are a good spirited person who enjoys life and smiles a lot, but you also trigger the smile in her and it will automatically make her feel better and have a good time.

4. Always be honest. If she asks you something you don't really want to answer or something you don't want her to know, don't lie but simply avoid the question. Just smile at her in a way that says: "Wouldn't you want to know" Then you start talking about something else. This way, you seem mysterious and girls love that about guys. They also hate being lied to, that's why you never lie, just avoid.

5. Always keep your attention on her. Make sure you listen to what she says. This way you can ask questions about what she has already mentioned, and she will love that you actually listen to her. It's very important for us girls to know you're paying attention.

6. The last advice on how to behave has to be this: Don't talk too loud, don't make everything about you and make sure you look relaxed and happy. It will assure her and make her feel the same way.

Ok, now you know how to behave on the date. If you want to keep dating the girl, or just have some fun with her, you should follow my advice. Let's get on with the conversation topics. There are several different categories. Let's start off with the conversation primers.

Conversation primers are most often about family, friends, work and your childhood. It's easy questions that will make her relax and loosen up. She will definitively have lots to say to these questions, and that's what you want. If you can make her talk a lot she will enjoy herself and time will seem to fly by. Here are some examples on questions:
- Where did you grow up?
- Do you have any siblings? Are you close?
- Did you have a happy childhood?
- What is your earliest memory?
- What is your happiest memory?
- What was your favourite toy? Do you still have it?
- What do you do as a living? Do you enjoy it?
- What is your dream profession?
- Do you have a nice boss?
- Do you have a best friend? What is he/she like?
- Are you still close to the friends you had when you were younger?
- Are you close to your family?
- What do you think they say to others when they talk about you?

These are all questions designed to make her open up and feel relaxed. She will probably also ask you some of them back, so just answer the best way you can. Also, make sure this doesn't come out as interrogation. Don't ask her everything at once, give it some time and even if she doesn't ask you questions back, reveal something about yourself to her. It will make her look at you as open and honest.
When your date is relaxed and you want to dig a little deeper, it's time to start with some new questions.

Digging deeper questions will challenge her and make her reveal things about herself without really thinking about it. Here are some examples:
- Have you ever had anyone in your life you considered your mentor? Tell me about him/her
- What was the most embarrassing moment in your life?
- Have you ever wanted to make a major change in your life? What and Why?
- If you only had a week left to live, how would you spend your time?
- What is your favourite season and why?
- Have you ever had a near death experience?
- What is the biggest white lie you have told anyone? What made you tell it?
- Do you often daydream? About what?
- Have you ever experienced a very strong dèjá vu? What happened?
- Do you think there are intelligent beings on other planets?
- What is your favourite board game and why?

You can also have fun with these kinds of questions. You will both probably have some funny stories to tell and at the same time get to know each other better. Girls love to talk and if you are a good conversationalist she will definitively want to keep dating you. There are two more categories; Personal questions and Probing questions. However, I wont address them just yet. It doesn't fit in on a first date.

I hope you guys manage to remember some of this, we really need some better daters out there. Go amaze a girl with your skills, hurry up! Good luck on your first date and just let me know if you need some more help with anything.

Thanks for visiting The Dating Guide for men.

Saturday 27 December 2008

New post comming up.

Hi everyone!

I've had so much to do during the holidays so I realise that i havent posted in a while. But dont worry, new post comming up in a day or two. It will either be about things to talk about on a date, or how to make girls jealous and benefit from it. Depends on what people want.

Till then,
Merry Christmas everyone!

Thursday 18 December 2008

6. The perfect first date.


The first date is always important. When you want to start dating someone, the first date is when they decide if they want to keep dating you. Will you get a second chance, a second date? If you follow my advice you will.

Keep in mind that the point of the first date is to get to know each other. How do you do that? It's simple. You talk. Therefore, going to a concert on the first date isn't the best thing to do. Neither is going to the movies, unless you are planning a dinner first. For a girl, a perfect first date is something that's different, something that shows that you've got an imagination. The perfect first date is when she feels you two connect. When she gets to know you and likes what she sees. She might want it to be a little romantic, and she will definitively want it to be a date to remember. Now, how do you do this? Well, you follow a couple simple rules.

1. First of all, get to know her. Talk a lot and listen a lot. It's very important that she feels like you are communicating well. You make her feel this by listening to her and asking her questions about what she is telling you. Also share some things about you with her. But remember to not share everything! Being a bit mystical is still a must on the first date. Remember what I told you in my other post, http://dating-guide4men.blogspot.com/2008/12/dating-get-her-to-say-yes_06.html

2. You want her to feel beautiful. This one is easy. When there is a pause in your conversation, keep your eyes on hers, really look deep down there, and when she looks down, blushes or asks you what, tell her: "You are beautiful." She will love it. Remember, no matter what she says after, try not to linger too long. Talk about something else. If you do, it will seem like an impulse that just came to mind. That will make it so much better.

3. You don't want to be cheap! No matter what your date says or how much she protests, YOU PAY EVERYTHING! If she tries to protest, tell her you invited her so it's your job to pay. If she invited you, tell her that she did all the hard work, working up the nerve to the invite, so then it's your duty to at least pay. It will charm her, trust me. And doing this is an excellent way of convincing her you're not poor, AND that you're generous. Women dislike cheap men.

4. You don't want to talk about sex. This is pretty straight forward. All the guys out there talk about sex or hint to it. Be different. We women are tired of having to chase men away with clubs, and having them make crude comments or brag about how good they are in bed etc. If you are shocked that men do this, then GOOD! That means you are not one of those guy. And if you are, then you will just have to hide it. Trust me on this. Guys have talked dirty to me so many times, told me crude jokes and invited me to bed before the first date, and let me tell you. It's not impressing.

5. Don't talk about your ex girlfriend. It will only make her think you come with luggage and you don't want that. Guys who talk about their exes to girls they have just started dating, is either not over the last girl, or they want to make the new one jealous. She will see straight through it so just drop it. I will put together a post another day to let you know the best way to make her jealous. You will not want to miss out on that one, it will work wonders for you.

6. Finally, be creative. It doesn't have to be a big deal. It can simply be taking her out on a late picnic, watching the sunset or something like that. But make sure you let her know you will be outside so she can pick out her clothing. She will appreciate it. And bring a blanket in case she gets cold.

Some things to do on a first date:
- Fancy restaurant (might be awkward if you're not the most chatty guy - again, will make a post on good topics for a date)
- Going horse back riding (really nice of both of you like horses and you have taken a lesson or two before)
- Dinner and a movie (try a not too fancy restaurant where you can be yourself and laugh and have fun, and if it's too quiet, you can leave earlier, walk to the movies instead of driving or taking a cab, and in the movies you want have to talk if you don't have anything to talk about)
- Midnight picnic (really nice. First guy who took me got a lot of brownie points if you know what I mean)
- Daylight picnic (make it a group activity and bring a football if you think it's going to be awkward)
- Going bowling (if the girl is sporty, this is almost always fun)
- Take a walk on the beach and buy a slice of pizza or a hot dog (most women love walking on the beach)
- Cook her a nice dinner and suggest a movie at home after (this will be a great opportunity to show off your domestic skills. We adore a man who can cook and watching a movie at home later give you a perfect excuse to snuggle/get a little touchy feely. I have to warn you though, don't do anything before you know she wants you to. How do you know? I will tell you in a later post)
- Take her to a funfair or an amusement park. (this is both funny, and she will cling to you when the rides scare her. What more can you ask for?)
-Take her dancing. (This you might want to wait with till your second date in case she is shy or thinks you want some action. But if she suggests it, then by all means, go go go!)
- Take her to play some pool (but only do this if you are fairly good. You can enjoy teaching her, standing behind her and innocently let her know how to handle the stick. She might find this exciting, and you can tell her: "The looser makes dinner for the winner, deal?". This way you just secured yourself another date! Pretty clever of you guys.)

If you need some more suggestions, let me know and I'll come back to you.

Ok guys. Keep in mind everything you have learned, and do what I told you here. If you do, you will definitively get a second date. My next post will be about what to talk about on a date (think, not sure yet) but if you want me to write about something in particular, please let me know.

Thank you for visiting The Dating Guide for men.


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Tuesday 16 December 2008

5. You got her number, now what?


Dating Advice

Many guys are unsure of what to do when they first have gotten a girls number after a night out. There are lots of wrong information out there. Some guys calls right away, others wait a couple days, some send an email and some show up at her door. In this post about dating I will tell you exactly what you should do when you are calling a girl you want to start dating, and what we girls think about it.

First of all there is one thing you should know about us girls. We analyze everything. And I do mean everything. Let me give you an example. Let's say you one day ask your date: "Are you sure you don't want dessert?" This question makes all women's head spin. It can either mean you think the girl you are dating are too thin, you think she is fat so you think she is used to having dessert, it can mean you want to stay out longer or that you're not ready to follow her home yet. One innocent comment from you can make your date go crazy into an analyzing frenzy. That's why it's very important that you know how and after how long to approach her after you have met her and secured her number.

The thing you have to know is that every girl is different. I will explain the ground rules to you, but to make it a little easier I will divide it into two categories; the girl who is used to attention and who's got a high self esteem and the insecure girl who almost never gets hit on. Girls who are beautiful often get hit on often and therefore they are very secure, and girls that aren't that attractive often feels more insecure because they're not used to attention. After just a glance, you can easily see who belongs in which categories.

The beautiful, secure girl.
This girl is used to attention, so the first rule here is to make sure you don't seem too eager. This is very important. Sure, we get flattered if you call us the day after you met us, but it makes you seem a bit desperate and you will forever be labelled as the loser who couldn't get anyone else. This might seem a bit harsh, but it's hard to get a girl to start dating you when she thinks she is your only option. With this kind of girl you should try to wait as long as you can, but keep in mind that if you wait too long she might have forgotten you or think you are a bastard for not calling. If you actually got her number, then I suggest you wait about three or four days before you call her. This way she will think about you and wonder when you are going to call, she might even call you first if she has your number (but don't bet on it, it doesn't happen that often with this kind of girl), and she will also know you have a life and that she isn't the only thing on your mind. So play a bit hard to get, just dont overdo it.

The insecure, a bit less attractive girl

Now, with this girl it's a completely different story. She isn't used to getting lots of attention, so if you give her a lot attention you will probably baffle and flatter her. Dating an insecure girl can be a lot of work sometimes, but if you make them feel beautiful and wanted they will always ask for more. If you met this kind of girl and got her number, you should probably call her the next day saying something like: "Hi there. Remember me, we met last night? I know everyone always say you should wait a couple days before calling, but I'm just not into those kinds of games, especially not with a girl as beautiful as you, who knows when you will be taken. Do you want to go out this weekend?" She will feel like the most special girl in the world, and she will tell all her friends about you. This really works for this kind of girl.

Ok, now you know when to call her, but how should you make contact and what should you say?
I always recommend calling at first. Of course, if you only have her mail then you don’t have a choice, but if you get the phone number, use it. If she doesn't answer, leave a message on her answering machine. The important thing to do before you call is to write down what you're going to say. Not exactly, but just so you have an idea and won’t be caught off guard in case of the dreaded answering machine. Since I have already told you what kind of thing you should say to the insecure girl you want to start dating, I will now only tell you what to say to the secure one.
Make sure you don't sound too interested and like you have no plans. You are going for confident and a little busy. When she picks up, say your name and ask her if she remembers meeting you at that bar a couple days ago. If she pretends she doesn't remember you tell her you were the guy she gave her number to last Friday or whenever it was. She should say "Oh, that’s right!" because she doesn't want to seem like the kind of girl who gives her number to everyone. After this you should try to say something funny or charming, but it's not a must. Just make sure that when you ask her out on a date, be casual and don't sound too enthusiastic. If she against all odds turns you down (which she shouldn't if you followed my previous dating advice) you have to take it lightly. Say something like: "Oh, ok, no problem. Maybe some other time then. See you later". This shows her you're don't care that much if she doesn't want to go out, and it will annoy her so much that you don't care more. If this happens you should wait somewhere between 7-14 days before you call again. Ask her if she is ready now, and she will say yes. Her curiosity will demand that she agrees to a date.

She agreed to a date, but you have no idea what to do with her? Read my next post about dating. I will tell you about the perfect first date.

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Thursday 11 December 2008

4. Get her to say yes - continues


The Dating Guide for men continues with the next 5 rules you should follow. If you didn’t read my previous post i strongly suggest you read that one before you continue with this one.

4. You want to be charming and funny, but not vulgar
5. You want it to seem as if you like talking to her, but you're not overly interested
6. You want her to think you are listening to everything she says
7. you want her to feel like you understand her
8. And you want her to feel good, but at the same time a little confused

4. Let me explain dating rule number four. It's not that hard, really. When it comes to dating, most women appreciate humour. Now as you know, everyone’s humour is different. Therefore it's important that you feel her out a little, what makes her laugh. Does she prefer stupid funny, intelligent humour, British humour, imitations or what? One thing that is sure to make her frown, is vulgarism. Do not try to be funny by saying: "Your boobs are really nice and big, do you think i could borrow them if i ever happen to find myself in the danger of drowning?" Trust me, no woman is going to laugh at that.. Instead, try and be yourself and make jokes at your own expense. People almost always laugh about other peoples flaws, or stupid things they have done. Be careful not to make her think you feel sorry about yourself, and don't reveal any weaknesses unless they are very harmless. You should instead make a joke about being a poor driver (but only if you're not, get the drift?) Say for example: I'm such a poor driver. The other day i was driving to the store, and this old lady suddenly appeared almost right in front of me. So i stepped on the brakes, and the frail little lady gave me the finger and yelled that i was an asshole. I told her i really was a nice guy, but a very poor driver." Now this might not be hilarious, but i bet if you sat down and thought about it, you could come up with lots of funny stories your date would appreciate. Dating is about having fun, and she definitively will if you manage to stick to these type of jokes. One last thing, if you are very smart and tell her intelligent jokes, and if she doesn’t get it, laugh and say you didn't really get it either, but you think it sounded smart. You don't want her to feel stupid.

5. This one can be harder, but not impossible. If you want to start dating a girl, you want her to want you. You do this by playing hard to get in a very subtle way. If you read my other posts, you know what I'm talking about. Anyways, when you talk to her, smile and nod when she talks, keep eye contact, listen to what she says and ask question about her stories or her life when you can. But don't look at other parts of her than her eyes. If you look at her boobs or lips or even stare at her neck, she will know you want her. Avoid this. Seem interested in what she has to say, but don't seem interested in her. If you do that, she's going to be curious as to why you don’t seem attracted to her, something that makes you a challenge, and all girls love a challenge. See, dating is actually very easy.

6. It's very easy to make her think you are listening to her. Just pay attention, have eye contact, and when she tells you different things, make sure to put in a: yes, oh, really, wow, that sounds nice etc every now and again. And make sure you ask her questions about what it is she is telling you. That way, she will know you are actually listening to her, and she will feel like you respect her. Respect is very important when it comes to dating.

7. When you want a girl to want to start dating you, you will, at some point, have to show her that you are nice and understanding. This you simply do by listening to her, asking her questions, and just try your best to see what she is telling you about from your perspective. No magic or great tips here, just do the best you can. But the point is, when you do actually understand something, tell her you understand or comment on it.

8. This one is tricky. How do you make her feel good but also a little confused about what you really want. Well, you keep in mind everything I have taught you. If she thinks you are listening, and if you keep your attention on her, keep eye contact etc, she will feel good because she will think you like as a person, you respect her and you are interested in what she has to say. Also, she will have fun and she will be curious about you and feel attracted to you. We girls are very weird. We can think you butt ugly one minute, but when you turn out to be a funny, charming guy, we can suddenly think you are the sexiest man alive. It's all in our heads, and if you win our heads and our hearts, you will be the most beautiful man in the world to us. Anyways, about the confused part. She will be slightly confused, because you haven't showed any interest in sleeping with her, or shown her that you are attracted to her.

That was all for today folks. In my next dating article I'm going to reveal some of our (the women of the earth) secrets.

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Saturday 6 December 2008

3. Get her to say yes!


The Dating Guide for men
Dating advice

Ok guys, we will continue where we left off (if you didn’t read my previous post about dating i suggest you do before you move on)

In my last post about dating we got as far as getting the hot girls attention. If you want to actually start dating her then you have to get her to say yes. How do you do that? It's actually not that hard. The first thing you have to do is to talk to her. I know it might go against what I told you, seeing as you're not allowed to seem interested in her, but it is possible to do if you just know how. Yes, dating is a bit complicated. When she looks at you (and believe, me she will after you just ignored her like I told you to in my other dating advice article) you will look back in a polite manner and ask her in a neutral, but gentle voice: "Can I help you?" She will probably either blush or stutter a little, but if she's not of the bold kind, she will say no. But this doesn't stop you, gentlemen. You are, after all, dating experts now. So with smile you say: "I could have sworn you looked puzzled." If you could manage something like that then you do me proud, because this is a great opening to a conversation. Dating is such an easy thing when you just know what to expect.

The conversation is rolling, your mind is wandering and you are just looking forward to start dating her. Whatever you do, don't let her know that you are secretly thinking about how good she would look without her clothes on. Don’t stare at her lips, at her neck or her breast. Try to keep eye contact, but not stare. If you think the eye contact is difficult, then glance at the bartender, order another drink, but make sure that if you do order yourself one you have to ask her if she wants one too. If not, you will look like a cheap bastard. You never want to look cheap to someone you want to start dating. Anyways... the conversation is rolling and your eyes are behaving themselves. What you want to do is this:

1. You want to seem a little mystical, not reveal too much
2. You want to appear humble, but confident
3. You want her to think you are successful without you bragging about it
4. You want to be charming and funny, but not vulgar
5. You want it to seem as if you like talking to her, but you're not overly interested
6. You want her to think you are listening to everything you say
7. you want her to feel like you understand her
8. And you want her to feel good, but at the same time a little confused

1. Now, I want to explain to you have you do this. Too seem mystical isn’t that hard and it’s important when you’re dating. All you have to do is answer her questions without revealing too much. If she asks you what you like to do in your spare time, tell her you have many different activities, and you like to keep active. Mention perhaps that among other things, you really enjoy a good book. Then if she asks you what more you like to do, smile and say: "Enough about me, what do you like to do?" Let her lead the conversation, avoid some questions simply by asking them back at her, and let her wonder what you are hiding. Trust me; she will want to find out. This dating advice is very important and everyone who has a clue about dating will know that I'm right.

2. So how do you appear both humble and confident? Both is important when it comes to dating. Let's to the humble thing first, shall we? Don’t brag, don't lie to make yourself look better, don't act as if you think you are better than anyone, and don’t criticise the other guys in the bar. It shouldn't be too difficult. Appearing confident, on the other hand, is something a couple people struggle with. But don’t you worry! I'm here to teach you about dating, and during all my years dating lots of different guys, I now recognise a confident man miles away. Rule number one: Always look people in the eyes and don’t be the first to look down or away. Always keep your head up (not like you think you own the world, but don’t look down). Keep your back straight, a good posture is important. Don't let your eyes wander too much, keep them steady. And please, watch your hands! Don't fidget with things, keep one in your pocket and the other on your glass, or keep them by your side or whatever feels comfortable as long as you don’t move them around all the time. If you do all this you will seem confident. And in dating, confidence is a must.

3. This one is tricky. Women want to start dating successful guys. Making her believe you are one without bragging about it is not that easy. You definitively don’t want her to think you are bragging. So you must be clever. When she asks you what you do for a living, just answer with about five words. Like: "I am in marketing". When she then ask you what in marketing, you can say something very positive about your position. Like "Well, I'm kind of like the manager, trying to make sure everything goes around, you know". This way, you sound humble, and you didn’t mention this until she asked you about it. If she asks you if it's money in that sort of thing, you give her a big grin and say "Well, I’m not exactly poor". She will think it means you make a lot of money, but if you don’t, you never lied to her. So it's a good trick for dating. Dating, when it's just starting up, is often about mystique and making yourself look good. It sounds horrible, but it's true.

4. I’m sorry people but I’m very tired now. I will tell you about the next 5 points in my next article about dating, coming up in about a day. For now, thank you for reading my dating tips on The Dating Guide for men, and I hope this helps you and makes your dating life easier.

Friday 5 December 2008

2. How to approach her.

Dating tips 2

The dating guide for men

Dating is easy. It doesn’t have to mean lots of work for you guys, if only you know which buttons to push. First of all, some small facts about women.

1. We want to work for it and we want a challenge.
2. We don’t like arrogant guys, but we love it when he's confident. Fine line there guys.
3. We want you to be interested, but not too interested, and not right away.
4. We want compliments, but not phony ones and they better not be from lousy pick up lines.
5. We want you to dress well!!!! Very important! See my post dating with style if you are in doubt.
6. We don’t want you to brag or tell us about your success with other women.
7. We hate it when you're not polite.
8. We hate it even more if you grab us before we give you the signals that it's ok to touch us.
9. We love it when you make us laugh.
10. We adore men who makes us feel like the most beautiful woman in the room.
11. We love charming men and men who knows how to make a woman feel special

Now don't worry if you're not charming, or if you're bad with words or any of the other things at this list. That’s why I'm here. This blog is for teaching you guys all about dating and women. If there is something you want to know that you're not reading here, it will most likely turn up in one of my other posts about dating.

Back to the topic at hand. One of the most important rules about dating is: You have to work on it without seeming too. It means that when you chase a girl, you have to make her thing you're not really that interested. It's the dating rule number one! Lets say you walk into a bar. You are looking for someone to start dating, or maybe just someone to have some fun with. You see lots of women, but there is one in particular. This beautiful, perfect girl that you would just die to get your hands on. You really want to start dating her! Instead of walking up to her you probably think something along the lines of: "She's way too hot to ever start dating someone like me. Lets try the plain girl in the corner". This is WRONG! When it comes to dating, confidence is a must! You have to be able to walk straight up to hottest girl in the room and not feel threatened. Now how do you do this? I'll tell you the secret.

When you walk into the room and you see this hot girl, chances are she is used to lots of attention and crude remarks. She wont like this, trust me. I have been groped more times than i can count, and i think i have heard every single pick up line there is, and let me tell you something... It isn't that impressive. We never start dating guys who does that. What you want is to make her remember you after you are gone, but because you were original or charming, not because you insulted her and she know hates your guts. If you want to start dating the really hot girls, follow my advice. So lets say the girl is sitting by the bar. One thing to do in this scenario is to position yourself right by her, glance at her once (AT HER FACE!!!! I cant stress this enough, resist the urge to give her a once over, meet her eyes, let your eyes wander over her face, then look away). Pretend you're not interested, that what you saw didn’t really tempt you. When a hot girl who is used to attention suddenly doesn’t get any, she will be curious and she will want you to notice her. Trust me on this, I am the exact same way.

After you have done this she will definitively have noticed you, which is exactly what you want. Now the next thing to do on the dating advice list, you will find in my next post, comming up soon:)


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Thursday 4 December 2008

1. Dating with style

Dating tips

Before you start dating there are certain things you should do. First of all, you need to make yourself presentable. You might think: "Dooh, that's something everyone knows about dating, get to the point, will ya?" but you would be amazed at all the guys out there who shows up for their date looking like they have just woken up. No matter what girls say, they do judge you based on your appearance and the first impression counts just as much, if not more, than the actual date. So... trim your beard, go to the hairdresser, cut your nails, get tweezers for those nose hairs and go out and get yourself some nice shoes. Yes, women do care about the shoes you men use, especially if she is going to be dating you. If you not yet have a date, you need to go and get one. You might already have one in mind, maybe a girl at work, or the hot girl at your gym. If that’s the case then great! You are one step closer to dating, but if you don’t you need to go and get one. "How do I get someone to start dating me?" I can hear you asking. Well, it's actually quite simple. If you want the perfect date, and you want to start dating for real, then you need to get a girl interested. So let’s say you're going to a club to meet a girl. The big question is, what do you wear? Well you would want women to notice you, and to think you look good, but not like you are trying to hard. One of the best things to wear is actually very simple. Simple but cool jeans, nice shoes (can be sneakers as long as they look good without any holes in them, or something nicer), and a white or black shirt, depending on the colour of your jeans. Perfect dating clothes. This is both stylish and cool, but it doesn’t scream "I try to hard and I'm desperate for a date!" kind of thing. So when you are well groomed and you have removed those nose hairs, then you are ready for the actual challenge of getting a girl to agree to a date. Let me tell you, it's not as hard as it may seem. In my next post about dating, i'm going to let you know just how you can, without to much trouble, get a girl to agree to go on a date with you, and, eventually, start dating you for real.

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Welcome to a dating guide to help men succesfully date women

Welcome to the dating guide for men. This blog will give you information on how to succesfully date women. You will find tips on dating women, the subtle art of seduction, making HER call YOU and lots of other usefull dating tips. Considering I am a girl myself, i know what im talking about. If you have any question not covered in the dating guide for men, then feel free to drop me a question.

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